Welcome to Inpulse

Inpulse is a sex-positive coaching practice dedicated to transforming intimacy, connection, and pleasure into everyday habits. My goal is to give you practical, evidence-based tools so you can communicate openly, love boldly, and thrive—solo or together.

I’m Destiny, a Loveology University–certified Intimacy, Relationship & Sex Coach. Blending research with warmth and humor, I create a safe, judgment-free space where you can explore desires, set healthy boundaries, and design the love life you deserve

Explore my services

Certified Master Sexpert Coaching

$80/session

Advanced training in sexual wellness, pleasure, and education. Some areas of interest we can unpack include:

  • Inclusive Anatomy & Physiology — vulva, penis, prostate, pelvic floor, neurobiology of arousal.

  • Safer Sex & STI Science — latest barrier methods, PrEP/PEP, risk-reducing communication scripts.

  • Desire, Arousal & Orgasm Cycles — dual-control model, responsive vs spontaneous desire, orgasmic variance.

  • Erotology: Fantasy, Fetish & Role-Play — psychology of kink, ethical exploration, scene creation.

  • Tantric & Taoist Practices — breathwork, energy movement, partner synchrony.

  • BDSM Proficiency — consent frameworks, negotiation checklists, safety gear, aftercare plans.

  • Hands-On Techniques — oral, manual, penetrative positioning for diverse bodies & abilities.

  • Toys & Tech — materials, hygiene, smart sex-tech trends, adaptive devices.

  • Trauma-Informed & LGBTQIA+ Affirming Care — trigger management, gender-affirming language.

  • Erotic Mindfulness — sensate focus, edging, breath anchors to heighten pleasure.

Loveology Relationship Coaching

$80/session

Comprehensive coursework on relational psychology and communication. Here are a few topics we can dive into:

  • Attachment Theory & Inner Child Work — secure bonding, re-parenting exercises.

  • Imago & Gottman Techniques — dialogue process, love maps, bids & repairs.

  • Conflict Resolution — non-violent communication, compromise models, de-escalation.

  • Five Love Languages — diagnosing, implementing daily micro-rituals.

  • Dating & Courtship Mastery — attraction psychology, boundary setting, green-flag spotting.

  • Infidelity & Trust Repair — disclosure, accountability, rebuilding transparency.

  • Intimacy Across Lifespan — menopause, andropause, chronic illness adaptations.

  • Sexual Dysfunction Interventions — PLISSIT model, sensate focus, medical referrals.

  • Ethical Non-Monogamy Basics — agreements, jealousy mapping, fluid bonding.

  • Financial, Digital & Spiritual Intimacy — money scripts, tech boundaries, shared meaning.

Intimacy Breakthrough Sessions

$80/session

Intimacy coaching sessions are tailored to your needs and can address a multitude of areas including what is listed below:

  • Desire & Boundary Clarity — explore personal values; map must‑have, curious, and hard‑no zones for safer, enthusiastic consent.

  • Erotic Blueprint Discovery — identify energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter pathways to fine‑tune arousal and pleasure.

  • Body & Sensation Awareness — guided breath, touch, and movement drills that reconnect you with bodily cues and heighten pleasure.

  • Shame & Anxiety Relief — science‑backed reframes and grounding tools to replace worry with embodied confidence and playfulness.

  • Libido Alignment — synchronize desire cycles using scheduling hacks, responsive‑desire strategies, and lifestyle/hormone tweaks.

  • Conflict‑to‑Connection Skills — turn tension into curiosity with reflective listening, repair rituals, and empathy prompts.

  • Intimate Date Design — craft low‑pressure, high‑intimacy experiences—at home or out—that foster novelty and closeness.

  • Goal Setting & Progress Tracking — create measurable micro‑goals, monitor wins, and adapt the roadmap as you grow.

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